Through the church planting efforts of a Presbyterian elder, God’s work of grace began in the life of my family and my life as I grew up as a boy in the Baltimore area. My parents met while my father was stationed in Germany as part of Allied occupational forces at the end of World War II. Wanting to be married, my mother left everything to come to America. Life was challenging, living in a strange place and in time becoming a young mother of four children. Through the faithful witnessing efforts of the elder, my mother surrendered her life to Christ and her life was transformed by the gospel.
The earliest memories I have of my mother are her prayers for her children. An invitation by a neighbor for my older sister and I to attend a Good News Club (CEF) led to my coming to faith in Christ between the ages of four and five. The small church my family attended had a profound impact on my life. The bi-vocational pastor was a businessman and man of vision. One of the lay leaders was a carpenter and craftsman by trade, whose life was characterized by anonymous service. My Sunday School teachers faithfully taught and demonstrated the Word of God in their lives.
Through my participation in the Christian Service Brigade program of another local church, I was influenced by several men as to what it really meant to be a servant leader. Their godly lifestyle influenced and challenged me. While in Brigade, I also participated in my first missions conference and at the age of fourteen made a commitment to serve Christ wherever He might lead. It was in Brigade that my I discovered my love for the outdoors and organized camping. I first served on a summer camp staff for one week while in junior high school. I continued to serve every year thereafter, culminating with five years of summer ministry at Hemlock Wilderness Brigade Camp in WV. My first opportunity to preach was at an outdoor service for staff and families staying over a weekend.
My three sisters and I all went to the same local elementary school. But my junior and senior high school years were spent at a predominantly Jewish public school, where I received a world-class education and served as a student government officer. While a senior in high school, our local church joined the RPCES denomination, which merged with the PCA in 1982. During this time, my father became an ordained Elder and I began to study the doctrine and confessions of the church, and embraced the Reformed perspective as my own. My acceptance in the School of Architecture at the University of Maryland, College Park moved me to the Washington DC area in the fall of 1979.
As a freshman, I started attending Wallace Memorial Presbyterian Church. The Wallace family has played a significant role in my life. I was befriended, encouraged, counseled, taken care of, discipled and supported in ministry efforts. I am grateful for the lasting influence of the godly pastors and Elders of Wallace Church. They faithfully taught God’s Word and modeled Christlikeness. The eleven years in the Washington DC area forced me to grow up and mature. I changed my major to Industrial Education and earned my undergraduate degree in 1984, while also gaining valuable work experience with Giant Food. Upon graduation, I went to work for AT&T until the fall of 1987, when the Lord provided the opportunity and means to pursue an M.B.A. in Human Resource Management. I was the first graduate assistant employed by the University’s Department of Physical Plant to design their Apprenticeship Training Program.
While in graduate school, I began to realize more fully God’s calling on my life. During the summer of 1989, I served as an intern at Ridge Haven Conference Center which introduced me to the PCA and to Reformed Theological Seminary (RTS). I finished up my MBA and accepted a position as an assistant camp director at a Christian camp in northcentral Pennsylvania. While serving on the staff, I met Barbara, who was working as a 4H agent at the time in Williamsport, PA. Sensing God’s direction, I returned to Baltimore with the goal of pursuing a theological education. With the endorsement of the Elders of Wallace Church, I became a ministerial candidate under care of Potomac Presbytery. With their support, I began classes at RTS Jackson in the fall of 1991. Nothing with the Lord is wasted. While at RTS, I began teaching as an adjunct instructor in the business department at Belhaven College, ultimately focusing on the capstone course, Ethics in the Marketplace.
Barbara and I were married in June 1992 and began attending Trinity Presbyterian Church. I had the privilege of interning and serving on the staff at Trinity while in seminary. I am grateful for the godly professors and mentors I had at RTS, but especially those at Trinity. Dr. Michael Ross and Dr. Ligon Duncan III influenced my desire to be involved with church revitalization and cross-cultural missions. While at Trinity, I led two short-term mission trips aimed at assisting church planters.
The Lord has given Barbara and me a vision for church vitality in an urban environment. I raised support to serve in a multi-ethnic ministry in Baltimore and was ordained as a PCA Teaching Elder in 1997. While serving in Baltimore, we adopted Tyler, our bi-racial son. During this time, my mother was reunited with her birthmother after over fifty years of separation. My grandmother’s subsequent visit to the US, to meet the family she never knew she had, led to her coming to faith in Christ. God’s covenant promises are true!
All of our ministry assignments from the Lord have been challenging. Each involved serving in a context different from that in which we grew up. We are grateful to have seen people come to know Christ and be discipled within the context of the local church. We stepped out of church supported vocation in June 2014 to let ourselves heal and also to attend to our son’s psychological needs. The people of Gospel Fellowship PCA have been a real encouragement as we spent several years learning how best to help our son. We are grateful for the Lord’s grace at work in all of our lives. Currently, Tyler is living on his own in Pittsburgh and working at a music studio doing sound engineering. We pray daily for God’s grace to draw us into a deeper relationship with Himself.
We have also prayed for the Lord to show us His will, wanting to steward well His calling on our lives. We underwent vocational counseling that enabled us to discern how God has put the pieces of our lives together. To summarize: Most of my life has been spent in cross-cultural contexts. As a teenager I went to public schools that were 95% Jewish, in college I worked with urban kids in Washington DC from five differing ethnic groups, and my extended family is international in scope. By God’s providence, I have the experience of being a minority and a heart for being a Christian in a differing cultural context.